Finding joy, peace, and the obstacles encountered among the ugliness
Having boundaries is a concept that most do not talk about. Boundaries are through relationship-building from childhood caregivers. They fluctuate for every person, culture, familial system, and society. Find out what types of boundaries exist and how to use them. Continue reading Why You Need Boundaries
One difference between Eastern Europeans and Americans is their bluntness (and strength). Often seen as offensive, their perspective of disingenuous courteous banter as a waste of time, whereas Americans chatter nonstop about superficial topics. Why is there such a difference? And, how does this benefit them? Continue reading When to Call Bullshit
In dysfunctional family systems, rarely do those members want to hear your truth. And, if it is a distressful situation, they might outright refuse to consider anything you say. Often people in this situation will begin to doubt their own reality, their feelings, and accept responsibility for the actions or feelings of others. What do you do when you express your feelings, concerns, or witnessed truths to others and they tell you you are crazy?
Welcome to gaslighting. You are not the only one. Continue reading The Downside of Relationships: Projection, Gaslighting, and Sick Family Systems
